To update your gender, navigate to the Profile & Settings section in the left-side menu. Then, click on My Profile and go to the Information tab. We offer a variety of gender options to choose from. If you don't feel identified with any of the provided options, please don't hesitate to contact us, and we'll work on adding more gender options to ensure inclusivity and representation. Send us an email to support@tempted.com and eve@tempted.com